The Art of Disappearing

The “Greasy sausage balls” (Line 8) in the second stanza focus the mind on what “parties are like” (Line 4). Instead of considering the positive aspects of social gatherings, Shihab Nye spotlights the low-cost food, hastily prepared, served on a “paper plate” (Line 8). This image, next to the person speaking in a “loud voice” (Line 6), suggests the speaker does not like the party or parties in general. It is a way of critiquing social gatherings, showing their superficiality and distasteful qualities with one memorable image.

The speaker says, “[y]ou’re trying to remember something / too important to forget” (Lines 13-14), then she lists as examples trees and a monastery bell (Line 15). Both are important on their own; together they become doubly significant. Trees suggest a natural setting. The speaker is suggesting the reader take more time to connect with the natural world. A “monastery” (Line 15) signifies multiple abstract concepts. It is a building where spiritual seekers live in solitude for contemplation and devotion to their spiritual quest. A “monastery bell” (Line 15) calls people to worship. To remember the “monastery bell at twilight” (Line 15) signifies the reader may need to take time for spiritual practice with a ritual at the beginning and end of each day.